36 Questions to Fall in Love

The questionnaire includes three sets of 12 questions divided with 3 specific goals:

1. A gradation (from the most superficial to the deepest);
2. Feel like you are liked by the other person;
3. Have similarities, common points.

It’s without guarantee, but if you’re meant for each other, it could speed up the process!

First set of questions:

1. If you could have dinner with anyone in the world, who would you invite?
2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?
3. Before making a phone call, do you rehearse what you are going to say before dialing the number? Why?
4. What would be a perfect day for you?
5. When was the last time you sang for yourself? And for someone else?
6. If you could live to be 90 years old, keeping either the mind or body of your 30s for the last 60 years of your life, which would you choose: the body or the mind?
7. Do you have a hunch about how you will die?
8. Name three things that your partner and you seem to have in common.
9. What is the thing you are most grateful for in life?
10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
11. Take four minutes to tell your partner your life story, in as much detail as possible.
12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained a quality or a new skill, what would it be?

Second set of questions:

1. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?
2. Is there something you have always dreamed of doing? Why haven’t you done it yet?
3. What is the greatest achievement of your life?
4. What is the most important thing to you in friendship?
5. What is your most precious memory?
6. What is your most terrible memory?
7. If you knew that in a year you were going to die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you live? Why?
8. What does friendship mean to you?
9. What roles do love and affection play in your life?
10. Take turns complimenting the person in front of you. 5 times in a row.
11. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel like your childhood was happier than most people’s?
12. How do you judge your relationship with your mother?

Third set of questions:

1. Each say three truths that begin with “we”. For example: “We are both in this room with a feeling of…”
2. Complete this sentence: “I would like to have someone with whom I could share…”
3. If you were to become a close friend of the person in front of you, tell them what would be important for them to know.
4. Tell the person in front of you what you like about them; be very honest this time and only say things that you would not normally say to someone you just met.
5. Tell the person in front of you an embarrassing moment in your life.
6. When was the last time you cried in front of someone? And alone?
7. Tell the person in front of you something you already like about them.
8. What topic, if any, is too serious to laugh about?
9. If you were to die tonight without being able to talk to anyone, what would you regret not having said? And why haven’t you done it?
10. Your house, which contains everything you own, is on fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely retrieve one object. What would it be? Why?
11. The death of which family member would touch you the most? Why?
12. Share a personal problem and ask the person in front of you for advice on how they would deal with it. Also ask them to tell you how they think you feel about the problem.